Some may say that there are more than five stages (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance) of grief and loss as described by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, MD, in her groundbreaking book On Death and Dying (1969).
However, according to Recover-from-grief.com/7-stages-of-grief website, there are seven stages of grief and loss:
Here is the grief model called the 7 Stages of Grief:
- SHOCK & DENIAL- You will probably react to learning of the loss with numbed disbelief. …
- PAIN & GUILT- …As the shock wears off, it is replaced with the suffering of unbelievable pain.
- ANGER & BARGAINING- …Frustration gives way to anger, and you may lash out and lay unwarranted blame for the death on someone else.
- “DEPRESSION”, REFLECTION, LONELINESS- …Just when your friends may think you should be getting on with your life, a long period of sad reflection will likely overtake you.
- THE UPWARD TURN- …As you start to adjust to life without your dear one, your life becomes a little calmer and more organized.
- RECONSTRUCTION & WORKING THROUGH- …As you become more functional, your mind starts working again, and you will find yourself seeking realistic solutions to problems posed by life without your loved one.
- ACCEPTANCE & HOPE- …During this, the last of the seven stages in this grief model, you learn to accept and deal with the reality of your situation.