Living with memory loss

To experience memory loss is to experience less baggage. Too often memory brings with it baggage that is gladly carried around for one’s life time. That baggage changes a person over time.memoryloss5

In the life of a person living with memory loss, experiences of loss is not experienced the same. It brings with it confusion, distraction, and potentially unsafe situations. I do not hate because that requires remembering a harm done. My memory retention is limited, but my memory recall can be enormous given the subject.

Intellect is not my problem. So that I may live with my disability in comfort, I need a person around me to make sure I do the things that keep me safe ie., lock the door, turn off the stove, close the window. These are all simple things that can bring cause for crisis if not attended to properly. I am reminded often.

Family members should be involved…

eliteWorking with the family members of the person receiving treatment or services is important. To engage family members will create an environment where clinicians, social workers, educators, probation officers, the courts, community staff, youth, and family members work together as partners to improve health, quality and safety where needed and more.

elite3Take a peek at the October 2016 “California Wraparound Connections”  newsletter that talks about some of the family members that have shaped change in the health and human services field.

Pioneers Age…

wraparoundWe strive to be recognized for our achievements. Just a thank you will do. I was in awe, speechless to be considered a “pioneer” of Wraparound in California.

UC Davis honored me with an article about my career in the development of Wraparound in California. The process let me see how old I have become.

It has been years, many have taken on the shield of family-focused practice which leads to better outcomes for children and families. I am grateful for helping to shape a place for the family voice.

 

I’m concerned about your safety. Have you thought about harming yourself or others?

Get Help for Your Friend or Family Member

Seek immediate assistance if you think your friend or family member is in danger of harming themselves. You can call a crisis line or the National Suicide Prevention Line at 1.800.273.TALK (8255).

If you think your friend or family member is in need of community mental health services you can find help in your area.

Maintaining Respect

memoryloss7When a person experiences mental illness their perspective or reality may appear different. These differences may bring attention to the person experiencing the mental illness. Unfortunately, for some in today’s society, maintaining respect for people with mental illness doesn’t happen.

It is not difficult to be respectful to people. All we have to do is demonstrate a little, compassion, love, concern for others, and appropriate language.

I’m Disabled. What’s My Role?

selfcare1The person that I am says I have to carve out my own space in life. Since I am a different person, I have to do things differently. The passion I have had has not gone away. My desire for it has gone but can be renewed.

What is my role? I have to first take care of myself. That’s my role. I must work on those things that will bring my life into balance. It may include professional support. Whatever it may be. My role is to create a safe, structured, loving environment that I can live and safely grow in.